Heartbreak is a storm that leaves us drenched in sorrow. The pain is REAL and can feel like the world has lost its color. In fact, heartbreak can make you question if you'll ever love again. But the sun always rises after the darkest night. It may come as a surprise, but love has a way of finding us when we least expect it. And it's a significant sign of healing after pain.

You might be going about your day, trying to heal, and suddenly, there it is – a spark. It could be a shared laugh, a kind gesture, or a smile that reignites that unique warmth within your heart. Love doesn't always announce its arrival; often, it gently tiptoes in. When this happens after heartbreak, opening your heart becomes a courageous act, and you may find yourself doubting if it’s really happening (we often don’t believe it).

So, as a reminder, let’s explore 14 telltale behaviors people show when they're in love. 

Shall we?

Constant thoughts:

When you’re in love, you can't stop thinking about that person. It starts by thinking of them longer than you should; before you know it, they’ve occupied your mind completely. You replay special moments and imagine all the beautiful things you could do together. 

Selfless sacrifices:

Love awakens our selfless spirit. You become willing to do every honorable thing to make them happy, even if it requires sacrifices, and you do it without hesitation because their happiness means everything to you.

Prioritizing quality time:

You treasure every moment together and free up your schedule to be with them. And you might even experience nervous excitement as you anticipate seeing them :)

Strong urge to care:

When you’re in love, you strongly desire to protect and care for your beloved. Seeing them happy brings you joy, and you don’t want anything to make them sad.

Interest in meeting loved ones:

You eagerly look forward to meeting the important people in their lives to connect, become a part of their world, and leave a good impression. Of course, a little anxiety creeps in as you hope they'll like you just as much :)

Prioritizing communication:

You call and text them regularly. Their calls and texts light up your day, and their absence leaves you longing for their messages. Additionally, you may experience a slightly heart-wrenching feeling when they don't return your call or respond quickly :) 

Making them feel special:

You want them to know they’re cherished and loved. It just comes naturally. And you show this by surprising them with thoughtful gifts or kind gestures.

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Fantasizing a future together:

The idea of spending the rest of your life with them fills you with joy. Even if you’re in the early stages, you can't wait to be together and have them for yourself. They become essential to your plans because you can't imagine a future without them. 

Heightened joy and diminished sadness:

Love brings inexplicable joy; you generally become happier. You smile more often, and even their thought or hearing their name brightens your mood. Negative feelings seem to fade, and the world suddenly feels like a happier place! 

Idealizing the person:

You see them through the lens of complete admiration. You love everything about them, their qualities and little imperfections. You see them as a perfect dream come true. 

Finding joy in their presence:

Their existence makes you happy. You laugh a lot, even at their not-so-funny jokes. You enjoy every minute with them. And that's why you might feel a bit jealous when you see them having fun with others :) Nevertheless, you appreciate their good times without becoming possessive because you love them. 

Involuntary smiles:

You know those moments when someone brings up their name or playfully teases you about them? A big, bright smile instantly spreads across your face, and you can't help it. It's a joyful reaction that shows how much they mean to you.

Increased self-care:

Love inspires us to be the best version of ourselves. This makes you pay extra attention to your appearance and strive to look clean, presentable, and attractive to them.

Openness to relationship responsibilities (consistently and over time):

Your love for them is beyond transient emotions; it's a commitment. You fully embrace the duties of commitment like loyalty, honesty, respect, and kindness. You give your time, energy, and effort to make the relationship work, even after the initial excitement fades. And that's the beauty of love. 

So, dear one, did someone special come to mind while reading this article? If yes, there's a good chance that love may be in the air :) Finding love again after a tough heartbreak is a testament to your strength and resilience. Open your heart to this new chapter, implement the positive lessons from past relationships, and remember that you deserve all the love and happiness life has in store for you. I hope this journey brings lots of laughter, understanding, and a love that makes your heart feel alive again.

However, people experience love differently; these behaviors are just some ways love manifests. 

Want to learn more?

You’ll find all relevant studies below.

If you're struggling to find love, don't worry. You're not alone. Consider watching this video: How to Attract Love Effortlessly: 4 Mindset Shifts.

Now, I’m curious: Are you in love? 

Which behaviors resonated with you? 

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comment section.

We’d love to hear from you! 

References: 

• Aron A., Fisher H. E., Strong G., Acevedo B., Riela S., & Tsapelas I. (2008). Handbook of relationship initiation. Psychology Press (pp. 315–336). Retrieved from https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2008-09972-016

• Pines A., & Pines A.M. (2005). Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose (2nd ed.). Routledge. Retrieved from https://doi.org/10.4324/9780203843864

• Aron A., Fisher H.E., Mashek D.J., Strong G., Li H.F., & Brown L.L. (2005). Reward, motivation, and emotional systems associated with early-stage intense romantic love: An fMRI study. Journal of Neuropsychology (pp 94, 327–357). Retrieved from https://doi.org/10.1152/jn.00838.2004